"Perfection" is implied every time you fall short on a goal, but, it's imaginary and unattainable. Even if you met your goal, "perfection" haunts you...even though it is NOT....

Written in 1975....

Like all identity particularity, masturbatory regional particularity might feel good in the moment but carries sinister effects on those at the periphery.

No....

Everybody should read John...links posted....

See biography for John Stuart Mill:
https://civilsimian.com/John-Stuart-Mill

Read John Stuart Mill's work:
https://civilsimian.com/user/71/content