I'm not changing anything for somebody that isn't an ACTUAL good person....who is arguing from correspondence truth and a context of observable reality at a minimum.....

More rational? Doing the work to be less irrational....at a speed that's comfortable over a long period of time....that's the recipe....

....and she's not talking about "truth" telling people who say rude things and then try to pass it off as being "honest"...

Identity particularity is constructed and should never subvert ACTUAL life. But, we share common physical ancestors, so, groups CAN be based on physical evolutionary determinism. Universality, understanding all humans have a common physical ancestor...Universal Humanism...an identity group based on pre-choice determinism that supports basic ethics and justice.